SHIBARI (Japanese Erotic Art of Tying)

SHIBARI is the Japanese art of bondage. Being tied up gives you the freedom to surrender completely to pleasure, as your lover teases and titillates you. Take turns to tie each other up with scarves, bondage tape, or wrist and ankle cuffs. Men, in particular, tend to enjoy this type of domination.

Tying techniques if you are a novice to the pleasures of bondage play, try this simple technique to  start off the night’s proceedings: First, tie your lover’s hands loosely behind his back, and guide him  to the bed. (this is just to give him a hint of what’s to come.) Untie the knot and position your naked  lover flat on his back with his arms above his head, then use bondage tape to bind his wrists and ankles together. now that you have immobilized your lover, straddle his body on all fours and lavish  him with licks, kisses, and nibbles. treat your lover to some brief but blissful oral sex. it is important to tease your lover by alternately indulging him then pulling away—this way your lover will know that  you are firmly in charge. Dominance and submission is the key to truly titillating bondage play. afterward, swap roles so that he dominates.

Tease with your tongue if you want to take it a step further, try this Japanese tying technique: ask your naked lover to stand up and fold his arms behind his back. now bind your lover’s arms with bondage tape or a silk scarf. tease your lover’s body with your tongue in the same way as before.  the fact that your lover is standing up will make him feel especially exposed and vulnerable. When  your lover is quivering with arousal, guide your lover into bed, push him onto the mattress, and then let the passion take over.

For a true bondage classic, spread your lover’s body in an open star shape on the bed, then tie his  wrists and ankles to each of the four bedposts. You now have complete access to his body, as well as the freedom to take complete erotic advantage. Be as adventerous and daring as you want. Don’t forget to swap roles.

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Create a Naughty Seat for Shibari
taking sex out of the bedroom instantly ramps up the excitement factor. add an extra frisson of naughtiness by treating a kitchen chair as a sexy Shibari prop: ask your lover to take a seat, then tie  your lover’s ankles to the bottom of the chair legs. now ask your lover to relax their arms by their  sides so you can bind the wrists to the top of each chair leg. a woman can drive her lover crazy by  performing a striptease, or by lap dancing for him. a man can give his lover oral sex that  takes her all the way to orgasm ... and then keep going until she begs him to stop.